Previously, I've promised to blog about my ideal type.
Today, i will be mentioning some of the traits of what i look for in a guy.
1. Handsome but dumb/ Smart but ugly?
Idk how many people might choose the first option but i will definitely choose the second one.
When i was younger, i always thought that looks is the most important.
But actually, i'm utterly wrong. Looks doesn't mean everything.
If you have the looks but brainless, nah i wouldn't choose you.
Cuz honestly, i admit that i'm quite a dumb person ...
So i wouldn't like the idea of my partner being as dumb as me HAHAHA
2. Kind-hearted (BONUS POINT)
I feel that no matter how perfect the person might be,
Without a good heart ; he/she is counted as nothing.
So what i look for in a guy ; is not only his character but heart too.
For example : 1) having a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune;
2) Offering to do something to alleviate their suffering ;
3) Giving your utmost best to help someone even if it's a stranger ;
Not only it portrays his kindness but selflessness too .
Tell me, who doesn't want a guy like this?
3. Charismatic/ Handsome ?
Yes we all see/judge according to appearance, isn't it?
But i will choose Charismatic instead of Handsome.
What do i mean by charismatic?
The person doesn't need to be handsome but there is a certain factor that makes him attractive.
He sort of possesses some "charm" that makes him special and different.
Whereas handsome- is mainly talking about his outer appearance which is insignificant at all.
4. Gentleman-like
I guess this is one of the most common traits that all girls would wish for.
Likewise for me, this trait is essential for my ideal type.
For me, those who didn't possess this trait is an ultimate turn-off .
Totally couldn't tolerate guys who insist of fighting with ladies over stuffs.
Lol if i happened to meet a guy like this; i will tell him to be a girl instead #no #joke
5. Humorous / Cheerful?
There's an issue about being humorous and humorous wannabe.
Yeaa, i TRIED to be humorous but i had to admit that i suck at it.
Don't you find it amazing when some people could be effortlessly funny?!
Like when they said something "EVERYBODY ROARED INTO LAUGHTER"
Totally different from the response i got when i tried this, lol.
Thus, i feel that being humorous could really make someone's day (:
6. Decisive
If you're a frequent reader of my blog entries, you will know that I've always emphasize this :
"YOU DECIDE YOUR OWN FUTURE" (sounds familiar, isn't it?)
Everybody has a mind of it's own and nobody unless YOU, can control it
Therefore, you need to have a strong mindset and know what you're doing.
Moreover, being decisive also shows that you're trustable in your own judgement;
meaning that you wouldn't be swayed easily by other influences.
Isn't that great to find someone who has a mind of it's own? LOL a bit YDS.
7. Romantic?
As you know, i'm totally not a fan of romance movies.
The chances of watching a romance movie and falling asleep is like 99%
Haha, that's why i wouldn't even dare to dream that my ideal type would be Romantic.
Actually a part of me wishes that he is not, hahahha ops.
Honestly, don't you find those honeyed words are only a fallacy?
Because i do.
So this prolly sums up how my ideal type is.
Nevertheless, i'm prepared that my future bf wouldn't possesses these traits.
Cause it's normally the opposite of what you hope for.
Hence, i will be REAL thankful if he could portray at least one of these HAHA
Anyway to end this post, I've one last thing to say
Yes, it's true that everybody sees the looks first instead of the heart
No matter how much he/she denies , how can you believe that it's not the case?
Needless to say, looks is the one that attracts most of us,
But character is the one that makes us stay...
SO
Instead of feeling inferior of being ugly, why not start with
A good character that captures people's hearts rather than attention?
Don't forget that attention is a temporary phase while heart stays with you forever
(:
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