Sunday, January 27, 2013

Hurt

Isn't it great that we can do this for time? 
When you're sad, you can go rewind <<<<<
When you're happy, you can pause for the moment.
When you're excited, you can forward >>>>>
When you're just tired of everything, you can stop to take a break.
G.R.E.A.T yea...
But snap back to reality cause it's not gonna happen.
Whatever the case, you gotta move on.
You have to accept everything and stay cool.
Life still goes on no matter how hard life could be!
But one thing you might be able to do is CONTROL YOUR MIND.
For example, i'm a person that always overthinks/worry too much.
So everytime when i encounter those negative thoughts flooding in my whole mind,
I WILL KEEP MYSELF SUPER BUSY.
By doing stuffs or the best way is EXERCISING.
prolly go a run/swim/cycle .
whatever the case that can make you better after doing it.
This works for me especially when i'm sad/vexed!
#justsharing


Ever wonder one of your remarks can make someone cry badly  ?
Ever wonder that sentence you said lightly makes someone think deeply?
Ever wonder that joke you made actually pierce through someone's heart?

don't underestimate the power of words.
sometimes, some words are just not meant to be said.
because right after you said, there is NO TURNING BACK.
You had officially hurt that person's heart/feeling
Do you think by apologising helps? 
If you think it is, you must be stupid.
Mind heals but heart don't.
Your words will be etched eternally in someone's heart.
And i truly hope that it's positive instead of negative.
#don'tbelikeme




Last time, i'm really a DAMN straightforward person
that
DOES NOT EVEN USE MY BRAIN TO THINK
before i say smth.
And i think thanks to that , i've hurt quite a number of frens .
Some left me, some were still angry with me, some hated me.
Frankly speaking, i don't blame them.
(maybe last time i do )
I take words too lightly, i tot words are just words.
I was too insensitive to others' feelings ; hurting them indirectly without knowing.
I didn't know that sometimes people treat words that seriously.
So yup, i decided to change.
I need to stop hurting others' feelings before i start to regret.

C.U.R.R.E.N.T ME.

i'm still straightforward.
but
(definitely better than the past)
Sometimes, i still make the same mistake of saying wrong things.
Don't mind me cause it's actually my nature.
At least now , i will think first before i say smth .
Especially it's might be sensitive to someone or whatever.
Just be alert !
Though i'm like this, i still firmly believe in honesty.
If there're circumstances when i have to choose between lie or truth ,
I will take the second one.
Cause i don't want to lie.
Learning the truth might hurt at the point of time but
Being exposed of LYING hurts that person eternally.
Even worse is that the trust will be gone.
just like that.




Best way is to THINK BEFORE YOU SAY 


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