But, how many people here really think this way?
A lot of people who i know all prefer to KNOW MORE PEOPLE
rather than just being satisfied with their true frens.
Is that human greed ?
Always not satisfied of what you have despite having a lot?
Idk, but what's the use of having a lot of friends?
It's just like money.
What's the point of having a lot of money if you don't feel happy
So what if you have a lot of frens.
It's not like every single of them will stay by you when you need them.
Only true friends do.
So for me, my mindset still haven't change.
I still prefer keeping just a small group of true frens
rather than having to know a big group of frens.
I'm satisfied/ blessed with the frens i have now.
In fact , i actually don't wish for poly life.
Cause you get to know many many frens,
you need to go through an unfamiliar stage again,
meeting people who you don't even know how they are like,
afraid to be yourself...
Asking yourself whether you have change
& Then you will start to miss all your true frens.
Wondering " if only they are there with you "
Can i find someone like this is poly life too?
Hmm, sounds real unconvincing actually.
Whenever i meet up with my true frens,
after 12346789 days not seeing them,
we didn't get awkward at all.
In fact , we will talk like no tomorrow & cherish every single moment together.
Then i realise , time is not a problem...
As long as you know how to cherish the times spent together,
everything will be fine.
Last time, i would be insecure , thinking that i have drifted with my frens
after not meeting for many months .
However , i'm wrong.
True friends may drift physically but not mentally.
In short, true friendship will last as long as you don't give up.
:)
just like love
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