Tuesday, February 11, 2014

What is love

Wanna blog about this since ages ago but,
As usual, i didn't have the time.


So my topic today is : WHAT IS TRUE LOVE?
Did some research online and here's what i got.


True love isn't about passion or lust or attraction or common interests and personalities. It's something altogether different. It's about learning to complement each other, learning to grow with each other. It's about doing love-things, even when you don't feel like it, even when life drives you to insanity, even if you think you've lost love. It's about commitment and perseverance and thinking and feeling and happiness. -- TimKing 

A part of me only agree to a certain extent.
Whyyyy?
Because of what i've witnessed/experienced in my 18 years of life.
"Seeing people who claimed that they are truly in love till eternity,
In the end seeing them fall apart,
But each finding another partner within minutes"
Wow, that's what is called TRUE LOVE
So where did all the happy memories go ?
How about commitments? Promises?
All those " I LOVE YOU" sweet-talking words were just bull shits, aren't they?



I really feel that nowadays, people tend to overstate the word "LOVE"
It's like it became a word that could come out from a person's mouth so easily.
When the word gets overly abused, it's no longer significant anymore.


"Love is like a evil trap. At first, it makes you believe that it's gonna be long-lasting. So it taunts you further, making you fall into it unknowingly. Little did you know, it turned out to be a nightmare. The greater you fall, the deeper your pain. And it didn't stop just like that. Every single day, it haunts you again and again with memories"

I fell into this shit once and trust me,
"Once bitten, twice shy" - you wouldn't want to try it again.
(Unless someone could prove to me that it's not gonna happen again)
Blissful heart>broken heart>cold heart...
You can forgive but you can never forget the pain .

\\The heart-wrenching pain you get when you woke up every single morning,
  Knowing that it's just a dream, never getting back to reality.

\\The sudden thought of crying when memories hit back like a wrecking ball. 

\\The sense of nostalgia you get when you happened to visit familiar places, 
 Bringing back all those painful memories, making you break down all again.

\\The wishes you make every single day, hoping that fate will bring us back together again. 

\\The predicament of wanting to sleep but memories haunt you without a break.
And you managed to fall asleep with tears in your eyes.


Yes, that's basically what I've gone through.
After umpteen times of falling and getting up on my  feet without ANY help,
I managed to survive from this painful experience. (Y)
I'm just so over and done with this crazy thing called Love.


For people who have been finding ways to cure a broken heart,
The best way is to give yourself TIME.
As the time passes, the lesser pain you experience.
The pain is ongoing but doesn't means that  it's permanent.
No matter how long it takes, it's only temporary.
And you will realise that the time you wasted is worth it afterall.

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